
This is a really big step for us, putting Judah in a big boy bed.
On the one hand, I feel almost ashamed that we still have him sleeping in a crib at 3 1/2, but on the other hand, when your son is prone to walking around the house in the dark of night and has done this, what else is a parent to do to be able to get a wink of sleep?
We've already long since installed a latch way up high on our front door and are now looking into buying some type of lock for our sliding-glass back door as well, because the old stick-in-the-bottom of the door thing doesn't keep him from getting out.
Despite our attempts at curtailing this behavior, Judah has also become quite adept at scaling and climbing over chain link fencing (thanks to big brother). Even very high chain link fencing.
And there is only one such fence between our yard and our neighbor's in-ground pool! Lord, have mercy!
We're obviously going to need to find some sort of method of alerting us when the boy climbs out of his bed.
Something loud enough to wake us from a dead sleep at night.
What really frightens me about this is that Judah was up wandering the house again last night because he was allowed to sleep in a big boy bed in big brother's room.
He already talks in his sleep, and now wanders the house at night (also apparently in his sleep)...do you see now why I worry excessively?
Have you seen those shows on TV where parents wake to find sleep-walking teenagers mechanically doing things like washing dishes, trying to get into the car in the garage and climbing around on roofs at night in their sleep yet with a blank look in their eyes?
I fear this. I truly do. But he's only going to fit in the crib for so much longer.
It's just that there are few options available that would be fire-safety approved.
Maybe keeping a baby gate in his doorway at night would help? If it was tricked out with bells?
I'm just not sure the other option would be loud enough. Bubble wrap on the floor could get pretty expensive after awhile.
On second thought, maybe I'll just put this bed in the studio/guest room for now instead.
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The kids had all been down for their naps for about a half hour or so, and I was in my studio happily drawing up landscaping plans for our newly cleared property when I heard a cry.
It sounded like the cry a little one makes in the night when they've gotten overheated and are all sticky and miserable, annoyed that their sleep was interrupted.
A sound that could almost be mistaken for a cough, but is really more of a cry of complaint. (And I know you're probably sitting there right now at your computer almost coughing, then smiling because you know exactly what type of cry I'm talking about).
"Figures it would be right after they finally all got to sleep, too..." I groused as
I silently tip-toed down the hallway to the other end of the house, hoping that whoever was awake would go back to sleep with a couple of soft pats on the back.
I peeked in on the girls and was relieved to find them both sound asleep. Which was good, because if one of the sisters woke up in the room where they were take their naps, I could pretty much kiss the next two hours of freetime goodbye.
Hoping that Judah would snuggle back into his bedding with the usual smoothing motion across his forehead, I crossed the hall, stepped into my bedroom and found that he, too, was sound asleep.
Well, whoever it was had fussed but managed to fall back to sleep on their own.
I breathed a sigh of relief and went back to work.
After drawing out some sketches for our side yard, I was trying to decide between honeysuckle or jasmine for the trellis there when I again heard crying, only this time it sounded like someone was calling out for me.
Somebody was probably thirsty. I filled a glass with water and headed stealthily back down the hallway to peek in on my boy.
He was snuggled into his blankets fast asleep.
Maybe the dogs barking earlier had wakened one of the girls. I quietly opened that door and found that they, too, were peacefully sleeping.
Coming back out to the living room, I was almost to my studio door when I again heard someone calling me.
Had Judah been pulling a fast one, trying to trick me? He'd never done such a thing before, but I certainly wouldn't put it past him.
Once again I crept down the hall and peeked into the rooms, only to find three soundly sleeping children.
I was just closing the door on the girls room when I heard it again, this time coming from the direction of the bathroom.
What in the world? I peeked in the bathroom, thinking maybe we had mourning doves nesting outside the window there as we did once in the other house.
And just then I heard the sound again coming loudly from outside, "Maaaaaaa-ma-a-a-ah."
And I had a good chuckle, realizing I'd been fooled by the neighbor's baby goat.

The kiddos quickly learned that if they made goat sounds, the kid next door would imitate them.
Little sister came running for me when the goat got too close to her and made it's loud "Maaaaaaah-ma-a-a-a" sound.
She wasn't sure what to make of an animal that could say "Mama".
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We broke out the sidewalk chalk after visiting with the goat for a bit.
Little sister was standing by the silly spider I drew.

Here, our Judah had just drawn a heart for his friend.

"Mama, wook...I maked a spiedow!"

Not too bad for a little tyke. I think he may become an arteest one day.
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In church on Sunday morning there was no Little Tot's class, and so Judah was in our Teen Sunday School class with us.
I'm pretty used to this, as for a couple of years there he was in my Wednesday evening Awana class since there was really no place else for him to go.
Occasionally he would interrupt, or the kids would laugh about something he was doing while standing out of my line of vision, but I got used to that, and was able to quickly get back on task.
Jeff, however, teaches all day in a school classroom and is unaccustomed to distractions during his class time, having very good classroom management skills. Most of his students are much older and with longer attention spans.
Judah's attention span is admittedly short, but for the most part he will sit quietly and listen.

But occasionally, all the sugar pulsing through his veins from the donuts and juice earlier will get the best of him, and he just can't contain his pent-up energy one moment longer.
This past Sunday, Jeff was in the middle of a fantastic lesson, when Judah climbed up on his seat and looked over at Lyndsay (one of the teen girls that rotates through the Nursery during Sunday Services) who was sitting to his right and whispers loudly, "Wookit, Wyndsay...I can Fwy!" And flapping his elbows wildly leaped off his seat in an arc and landed right in front of daddy's podium.
I don't know if I was just into Jeff's lesson that much or was completely oblivious to my child's distracting behavior, but it all happened so fast and just far enough out of my reach to be helpless to do anything without adding to the interruption.
That he'd been sitting there absolutely silent up to that point, and then suddenly decides to announce to Lyndsay that he could fly struck me as so funny that a giggle bubbled out.
Do you know how hard it is to restrain your laughter when something funny happens in church?
I managed to repress further audible giggles, but it instead took on that other form...silent laughter that shook my shoulders and the bench, until I was snorting and causing a bit of a scene myself.
I finally had to get up, grab Judah and leave.
Man, when is that kid going to grow up?
7 comments:
Loved your story about the goats! When we first moved to WA, the screaming birds mimicked crying, and I, too, was on the same hunt for a child in woe.
Judah, Judah, Judah, you make your mommy tired. It's a good thing you're soo cute.
p.s. I don't know if you saw my comment on my post, but if you can email me again, with your dates, we can talk back and forth. I can't find your email addy, and I don't think it was an intuitive one (e.g. becky@fab). The long and short of it is, we'll be gone for some of your trip, but shouldbe around for at least 1/2. Very excited to try to get together.
There are alarms that you can put on your bedroom doors that go off when the door opens. They run on batteries. I just did a quick google search and found a website that has Alzheimer's products. Just google The Alzheimer's Store. They should have lots of products to keep him safe while he sleep walks.
As strange as this may sound, we have a high lock on the outside of the nursery. It's a simple latch lock that you could bust through in an emergency (believe me... I forget it was latched one day and busted right through the thing in my haste).
I like another commenter's suggestion on an Alzhemier's product.
His bed is TOO stinkin' cute and what a steal of a deal! I'm finding that our thrift stores are ripping people off (busted dressers and beds for over $60).
Hey, I've learned the hard way that you NEVER know what a kid is gonna do. Seriously, they are capable of stunning you speechless at any time, day or night. Be afraid, be very afraid.
I have one of my own like that.
Great deal on the bed!
How could you possibly prepare for a moment like that?! LOL. I'm afraid like you I would have been found laughing hysterically underneath that subtle, shoulders shaking demeanor. I was also going to suggest the Alheimer's products. Well worth checking into.
Love that bed!!! = )
HAHA, there is too many good things in this post.
Walking in my sleep, check. Talking in my sleep, check. And I'm still here, Mama, so get some peace from that. lol He'll be okay, he may bump into a few things, but he'll be fine. I love the new bed you bought, thrift shopping has a bad rap. If people only knew.
The goat - hilariously funny!
Giggling in church is what I used to do best. Running out the side door and making more of a scene was my specialty. lol
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